Lack of Social Skills in Young America

Ok so this is something that has been bugging me soooooo bad lately. I was homeschooled , I'll admit my social skills are not that good but these days people are ridiculous , I don't have any friends at all, I don't have any problem admitting that either but it's not for a lack of trying , For instance, I love my coworkers , we are like the mad tea party when we are at work laughing and having a good tone but hang our after work? Unthinkable ! I get shot down every time with EVERYONE . The most common excuse is school. It must be so tidious on people having to think about school work 24/7 even tho they are drunk at some party. I can't help but shake my head at it. All you wanna do is hang out, talk, tighten a friendship and it doesn't even have to involve doing a damn thing at all but the excuse is school. I figured it out tho, at least in my geographical area. People make and produce friendships up to the end of high school then that's it. Unless it's a girlfriend or roommate or live next door it's unthinkable to have a friendship with another being being till after college then they have work and are too busy. It's  fascinating . Another factor is the economy , it's like ok lets hang out, what do we do? Literally the only things to do for fun here is bowling and movie theater. After that your pretty much done. The joys of living in subburbia . Ya I'm being cynical but this has happened way to much. Seriously America wake up , take a chance, and make some new freakin friends, if a coworker you hardly know asks to hang with you don't say I can't I have finals in 2 weeks . Take your freakin textbooks and chill at Starbucks . If you don't have school work, don't say I'm off work 2 Mondays from now . Hang with your friend after work at your house or his. Make a best friend . Stop being emo little recluses!!!! /endrant